When Dan showed me what he wrote about our wonderful evening (About Last Night) I could not help but to give him one long passionate hug of appreciation. He is my everything and what makes me feel like a woman at all times is the manner in which he is always taking me – in our love-making he is gentle, compassionate and he is an expert in foreplay. He has the skills to arouse me to the point that sometimes I must beg him to enter me as I can not take it any longer!
I know I am privileged to have Dan as it seems not all partners have the ability to arouse their ladies. Remember, arousal takes time. You cannot expect your body to see a naked man and be instantly prepared for penetration. A woman can take anywhere from mere minutes to 45 minutes to reach the level of arousal needed for an orgasm.
This means your partner must take the time to explore all parts of your body: touch the legs, inner thighs, the small of the back, undersides of the breasts, nape, and everywhere in-between. There are many erogenous zones on the human body and by gently exploring you will find many ways to arouse your woman. While you are listening to your body’s desires and letting you partner’s fingers and tongue do the walking, allow your mind to wander over anything you think is sexy. Nothing is off limits: never censure your inner desires. Fantasies are make-believe and you don’t have to feel wrong if they don’t coincide with what you think is moral.
Remember, behind closed doors the sky is the limit. Together you can ride one monster wave after the other – and when you walk out of your bedroom, although exhausted, you will have a smile and a twinkle in your eyes!
Janet
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